Saturday, June 22, 2019

Stressed, Burned Out or Demotivated. Already Being Toxic. This is for you.

Life!! Tough right?! Imagine, every day you wake up there are a lot of things to do whether you’re an employee, a house-wife/husband, a business owner, a student or just anyone. You’re bombarded with tasks, responsibilities, deadlines, personal/work issues, and other aspects of your life. Wish you could just run away from everything right? You should take that badly needed break! Don’t postpone it. Just take a break. Breathe. When life just seems so overwhelming, go ahead make time for relaxation and life detox. It’s gonna be worth it.

In order for us to keep going in this life, there are various things that we could do to refuel, to get away from stress, pressure, and problems. There’s nothing wrong with taking a rest if you’re tired. Do you need a change from your life or your routines? Or You love your job or what you’re doing but you just really need a break and to get away from the hustle bustles? 

You know life is just simple. Each day you wake up, some people just know what to do with their lives. Everything is planned, into place. Sometimes things work out for them sometimes it doesn't. To some people, everything is just unclear every time they make decisions they have to validate or ask for guidance to anyone they really rely on. And when that person is not available they freak out or just didn't want to make decisions. Life is about making bad and good decisions every day and no matter what the outcome you just got to wake up every day and make that unique imprint in this world.

You can make bad decisions. IT IS FINE. As long as you don't hurt or kill anyone intentionally. We're all HUMAN. Humans are not GOD. We are made to be imperfect. We cannot outshine that DIVINE BEING. Being imperfect is okay because you're just being human. Things only get worse if you justify yourself making bad things and say "Hey! I'm just human. I'm not perfect" and feel fine doing things that aren't acceptable. Work on yourself to be a good person, and to be better than what you are yesterday. You can check this post. It is okay to know that you're imperfect and feel motivated to try again the next day if today or yesterday has been really bad, but not okay if you do wrong and make it as an excuse.

Tomorrow you'll be bigger, wiser, kinder; just better. It takes a lot of your work and you not giving up. Who else can get you through with this life but you. We're all gonna die someday and no one else could stop it. When your time is over, THE END. Today you're still here being the person that you are. You might be so stressed out right now, depressed, demotivated, angry, fed up, burn out. But hey! You're not the only one! I get through that too, and those other guys you see and walk in your life. Life is hard. Yeah really hard to accept sometimes, but that's just how it is and we just gotta suck it up and just wing it.

Happiness is a choice. This is repetitive but really just choose happiness. Stop being angry, jealous, hypocrite, selfish, whiney, or simply JUST STOP BEING A TOXIC. Do you know why you are not happy? It's because of you always looking at what others have and not being grateful for what you have. Stop making excuses and blaming others that you are miserable and unhappy. You chose to feel that way, they didn't. As if people could keep you stuck in a box of misery, pain or loneliness. IT IS ALL YOU.

Working hard pays off. In whatever aspect of your life. If you put passion in everything, with love and hard work someday it'll just pay off. And it will just blow your mind and fill you with so much pride and happiness coz' it was all your hard work. YOU made that happen. YOU didn't stop. Only then you'll know, it is right "All my hard works really would pay off!"

Celebrate everything that needs to be celebrated. Life is too short. Who cares if you're celebrating coz' you finally perfected that sunny side up that you always mess up or burn. No matter how small it is. If you think you had many difficulties with something and finally perfected it, that deserves a big celebration of course. But you don't need to spend a lot of money on celebrating though. You can maybe make every person you love you're perfected sunny side up and share how you've really worked hard on perfecting it. Y'all know what I mean. Being proud of your hard works and feeling satisfied with your achievements is like a fuel to do something better. You might now know tomorrow you're already perfecting eggs benedict or something. HAHA.

Focus on your life. Stop obsessing about other peoples lives. You've got a tough life that needs full attention. You want to help other people or you just wanna meddle with anyone's business? There's a big difference there. If you're someone whose life is really perfect and happiness and success are overflowing, yes maybe then you could help others by teaching them what you did or how you've made through it. But if you're someone who's got a lot of self issues and your life doesn't have direction or if you can't even make things work for you, your partner or your family. DUDE! Focus! Fix yourself first. Look deeply inside you first and see what's going on with you and work on how you're gonna get through your circumstance or bad decisions. 

Celebrate the success of those people who've worked hard on themselves or their lives. Let people shine. Let people wear their own crowns. Stop blowing on someone's light. Everyone gets through tough times. You won't ever know how each person tries to stand up each and every time they fall. No matter how they are as a person. If they tick you off, or you feel violated by some people: just walk away or distance yourself. Plants and grass can't be in the same pot or else either one will have to die or sucked up. Choose what is good for you. If you're becoming toxic when you're around people who make you one, leave them. The world will be better with less toxic people. Don't add up to those populations. Choose to be the person who makes the world better. When you choose to be happy for someone you become happy too. I mean it has to be genuine. You really have to feel happy for them and not just think okay I'll be happy for them.

You'll only appreciate each person's beauty or shine if you're happy about yours. You're a beautiful person. Believe that you are. Why? It is just how you are made. You are already made beautiful. Embrace all that you are, flaws and all. Like I said you're only human, you might be flawed but you're unique and that is the beauty of it. If you try hard to do these things and make a lot of reflections about yourself you'd really go far in making a better life. Just keep going. Life is beautiful. Let's all enjoy this short life and be someone who'll make a good imprint in this world.

THANKS FOR READING AND GOD BLESS EVERYONE!! XOXO




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